Most women don't think that way. For them, it's quality, not quantity that provides satisfaction. Lovemaking is about more than the size of the instrument. In fact, the SIZE OF A MAN'S PENIS HAS ABSOLUTELY  NO RELATION TO SEXUAL PERFORMANCE OR PLEASURE. (Read that part twice if you need to.) Sexual pleasure, and as a relative entity, performance, corresponds to a person's state of mind, the feelings he/she has for his/her partner and the willingness to attend to the needs of both parties in the interaction.

Here are some facts about the common male penis that might put things into better perspective for you:

• the size of the average penis when erect measures 5.5 inches
• the size of the average penix when not erect is about 3.5 inches
• the average girth of the penis (when erect) is 5.7 inches
• actual amount of semen per ejaculation – 1-2 teaspoons
• average speed of ejaculation – 28 miles per hour
• average number of calories in a teaspoon of semen – 7
• most arousing time of year for a man is autumn (fall)
• most arousing time of day for a man is early morning
• penis size is determined by factors beyond your control such as genetics and perhaps cultural factors (and even age).

The best things you can do to improve your sexual function have nothing to do with surgical penile enhancement. Quitting smoking, exercising and losing weight will all help you perform better in the bedroom. If you find an insensitive partner who makes you feel inadequate, ditch him/her. That person is not worth your time or energy.

Remember – if you are overly concerned about your penis size and it impacts your sexual performance, you can always seek out help. A trained mental health professional can provide strategies to assist you.

(Note: Of course, if you are still vexed about the size of your member, you can take steps to naturally or surgically enhance it!)